Falling Into Self-Care: Using Autumn Activities to Support Your Mental Health
There is something about fall that invites us to slow down.
The air gets cooler. The days become shorter. The leaves begin to change. Football returns, homecoming season arrives, pumpkin patches start opening, and suddenly everything smells like cinnamon, apples, and something somebody insists is "pumpkin spice."
For many people, fall is comforting.
For others, the change in seasons can bring a noticeable change in mood.
As we move further into autumn and daylight decreases, some people experience increased sadness, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, changes in sleep, social withdrawal, or a general lack of motivation. For individuals who experience Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) or seasonal patterns of depression, fall and winter can be particularly difficult.
That is why fall can be a wonderful time to become more intentional about self-care.
And self-care does not always have to look like meditation, journaling, bubble baths, or expensive wellness retreats. Sometimes self-care looks like putting on a hoodie, grabbing an apple cider, watching a comfort movie, and giving yourself permission to enjoy something.
Self-Care Can Be Seasonal
One way to make self-care more sustainable is to connect it with things you already enjoy.
Instead of asking, "What am I supposed to do for self-care?" try asking:
"What helps me feel connected, grounded, rested, playful, or like myself?"
Fall gives us plenty of opportunities to explore that.
Ways to Feel Grounded
Some fall activities help us slow down, engage our senses, and come back to the present moment.
Visit an Apple Orchard or Pumpkin Patch
A trip to an orchard or pumpkin patch can provide more than cute pictures.
You are spending time outdoors, moving your body, engaging your senses, breaking up your normal routine, and potentially spending quality time with people you care about.
Pick apples.
Drink the cider.
Take the pictures.
Get on the hayride.
Buy the overpriced doughnut.
Self-care is allowed to be fun.
Carve or Decorate Pumpkins
Creative activities can give our minds somewhere to go besides our worries.
Pumpkin carving, pumpkin painting, crafting, or creating fall decorations can offer a low-pressure way to practice mindfulness.
You do not have to be artistic.
The goal is not to create something worthy of Pinterest.
The goal is to engage.
Turn on some music. Pour yourself something warm. Make a mess. Laugh when the pumpkin comes out looking nothing like the picture you were attempting to recreate.
Creativity can be therapeutic even when the finished product is terrible.
Especially when the finished product is terrible.
Make Your Home Feel Like a Safe Place to Land
Decorating for fall can also become part of your emotional self-care.
Our environment affects us.
Think about what would make your space feel warmer or more comforting during months when you may spend more time indoors.
Maybe that means adding:
Warm blankets and pillows
Fall-colored décor
Soft lighting
Seasonal flowers or plants
Candles or wax melts
A cozy reading or movie corner
You are not decorating because your home needs to look perfect.
You are creating an environment that feels good to you.
Try Fall Aromatherapy
Our sense of smell has a powerful relationship with memory and emotion.
Certain scents may remind you of family traditions, holidays, childhood, baking, travel, or simply being somewhere you felt safe.
Consider experimenting with seasonal scents such as cinnamon, apple, vanilla, cedarwood, clove, orange, or pumpkin-inspired fragrances.
Use candles, essential oil diffusers, lotions, simmer pots, teas, or whatever works for your lifestyle.
Just remember that aromatherapy is a comfort tool, not a substitute for mental health treatment when you are struggling with depression or another mental health condition.
Ways to Feel Rested
Shorter days are a natural invitation to slow down. Rest is part of self-care, too.
Take a Cabin Trip
Fall is perfect for a change of scenery.
If your budget and schedule allow, consider a cabin getaway, mountain trip, camping weekend, or even a simple overnight stay somewhere peaceful.
A trip does not have to be packed with activities.
Sleep late.
Sit on the porch.
Drink coffee.
Read.
Watch television.
Look at the trees.
Do absolutely nothing.
Rest does not have to be earned by reaching complete exhaustion first.
And if traveling is not financially realistic right now, you can recreate some of that atmosphere at home. Turn your phone down, cook something comforting, put on nature sounds, bundle up, and intentionally create a quiet weekend.
Self-care should fit your actual life, not an Instagram version of it.
Create a Fall Movie Ritual
Comfort television and movies count.
Yes, really.
Sometimes watching something familiar gives our nervous systems a chance to settle because we already know what is going to happen.
Create a fall movie list.
Maybe you love horror movies all October.
Maybe you prefer cozy romances, nostalgic classics, Halloween movies, psychological thrillers, or shows you have watched twenty times.
Make popcorn.
Get your favorite snacks.
Grab the blanket.
Turn the lights down.
And watch the movie without feeling guilty that you are "not being productive."
Rest is productive when your mind and body need rest.
Ways to Feel Playful and Connected
Sometimes we become so overwhelmed with responsibilities that we forget play and connection are legitimate emotional needs.
Go to the Fair
Go to the fair.
Ride something ridiculous.
Play a game you probably will not win.
Eat the funnel cake.
Watch people.
Take pictures.
Laugh.
For adults especially, self-care can become overly serious. We turn it into another task to complete correctly.
Play gives us permission to temporarily exist outside of productivity.
You do not have to accomplish anything.
You are allowed to simply have a good time.
Enjoy Homecoming Season
Homecoming can bring a unique kind of energy, especially when it reconnects us with community, culture, nostalgia, traditions, old friends, music, food, and memories.
Attend the parade.
Go to the step show.
Visit the tailgate.
See old classmates.
Wear the school colors.
Enjoy the band.
Or participate virtually if crowds, finances, travel, or your energy level make attending difficult.
Connection does not have to look the same for everyone.
For some people, homecoming feels exciting and restorative. For others, large social gatherings are exhausting.
Both experiences are valid.
You can participate in the parts that feel good and skip the parts that do not.
Go to a Football Game, or Create Your Own Game-Day Tradition
Fall and football seem determined to arrive together.
Whether you love high school, college, or professional football, games can create opportunities for connection and tradition.
Attend a game.
Tailgate.
Invite friends over.
Make game-day food.
Wear your team colors.
Or watch alone in complete peace while yelling at the television.
Your self-care does not always have to involve solitude.
Sometimes caring for ourselves means intentionally creating experiences of belonging.
Pay Attention to Seasonal Depression
While seasonal activities can support emotional wellness, it is also important to recognize when what you are experiencing goes beyond simply "not liking winter."
Pay attention if you notice persistent changes such as:
Feeling depressed most days
Losing interest in things you normally enjoy
Sleeping significantly more or less than usual
Difficulty concentrating
Increased isolation
Changes in appetite
Persistent exhaustion
Feelings of hopelessness or worthlessness
You do not need to wait until things become unbearable before seeking support.
Talking with a mental health professional can help you understand whether your mood changes may be connected to seasonal depression, another mental health concern, chronic stress, grief, burnout, or something else entirely.
Create Your Own Fall Self-Care List
Your list does not need to include everything.
Actually, please do not turn this into a 37-item fall bucket list that somehow becomes another source of stress.
Pick a few things.
Maybe your fall self-care looks like apple picking and homecoming.
Maybe it looks like horror movies, football, and pumpkin carving.
Maybe it looks like decorating your house, lighting a candle, and staying home.
Maybe this is a difficult season for you and your version of self-care is simply trying to get enough sleep, keeping your therapy appointments, eating regularly, and making it through the week.
That counts too.
Self-care is not about creating a picture-perfect life. It is about intentionally giving yourself some of what you need to continue living the life you actually have.
So this fall, find something that brings you comfort.
Find something that makes you laugh.
Find something that helps you connect.
Find something that lets you rest.
And somewhere between the pumpkins, football games, falling leaves, homecomings, cabin weekends, and scary movies, remember to check in with yourself too.
How are you really doing?
Because caring for yourself begins with being willing to hear the answer.
If the answer is "not great," you don't have to figure it out alone. Complete our intake form to get started, or join our email list for weekly wellness support and our free 7 Days of Self-Care Challenge.
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